Money is a topic that carries a lot of emotional weight, especially for women over 50 who may be facing major life transitions like retirement, divorce, or adjusting to a single income.
By this stage in life, the way we think about money has been shaped by decades of experiences—some empowering, some limiting.
One of the biggest factors that separates the financially comfortable from those who struggle isn’t just how much money they have; it’s how they think about money.
Let’s explore the key differences in money attitudes between those who thrive financially and those who feel stuck..
1.Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset
Scarcity Mindset: A woman with a scarcity mindset sees money as something that is always running out. She thinks, “I need to save every penny because there’s never enough.” When an unexpected bill arrives, panic sets in. She avoids investing in herself—whether it’s for personal growth, starting a business, or even a simple wellness retreat—because she fears she won’t recover the money.
Example: Susan, 62, recently retired and is living off her savings. She constantly worries about running out of money, so she never spends on experiences that bring her joy, like visiting her grandchildren or taking a class she’s always wanted to try. Her fear of spending keeps her stuck in a cycle of deprivation.
Abundance Mindset: A woman with an abundance mindset believes that money is a tool to create a better life. She doesn’t spend recklessly, but she understands that money flows in and out. She invests in things that bring value, whether that’s personal development, a business idea, or experiences that enrich her life.
Example: Diane, 58, is also retired but views her savings as a resource to enhance her life. She budgets wisely but isn’t afraid to spend on things that align with her values.
She recently started a side business consulting for younger women in her former industry, not just for extra income but for fulfillment and purpose.
2.Working for Money vs. Making Money Work for You
Working for Money: Many women grew up with the idea that hard work is the only way to make money. They trade time for money and feel that earning extra means working more hours and sacrificing leisure time. This can be exhausting, especially in retirement when the goal is supposed to be relaxation and enjoyment.
Example: Linda, 65, takes on odd jobs even though she doesn’t enjoy them, just to make ends meet. She believes making money requires struggle and sacrifice, so she never considers other ways to generate income, like passive income investments or monetizing a hobby.
Making Money Work for You: Wealthier individuals understand that money can be leveraged. They look for smart ways to invest, generate passive income, and use their skills to earn without overworking themselves.
Example: Barbara, 60, has a rental property that provides steady income. She also wrote a book about her career experiences, which now brings in royalties. She’s not constantly working, but her money continues to grow even when she’s not actively earning.
3.Fear of Losing vs. Willingness to Take Calculated Risks
Fear of Losing: Many women were taught to play it safe with money—keep it in savings, avoid investments, and never take risks. This keeps them financially stagnant.
Example: Carol, 63, inherited a lump sum after her husband passed away. She keeps all of it in a low-interest savings account because she’s afraid of losing it. Over time, inflation eats away at her money’s value, and she misses out on potential growth.
Willingness to Take Calculated Risks: The wealthy don’t gamble recklessly, but they do take informed risks. They educate themselves on investments, diversify their income, and understand that financial growth requires some level of risk-taking.
Example: Janet, 59, took a portion of her savings and invested in a portfolio of index funds after consulting with a financial advisor. Over time, she sees her money grow, giving her financial confidence and more options for her future.
4.Avoiding vs. Actively Managing Money
Avoiding Money: Many women, especially those who left financial management to a spouse, feel overwhelmed by money. They avoid looking at bank statements, don’t track expenses, and feel powerless over their financial situation.
Example: Patty, 66, never handled the finances in her marriage. After her divorce, she avoids dealing with bills and financial planning because it feels too overwhelming. As a result, she feels lost and anxious about money.
Actively Managing Money: Women who take control of their finances feel empowered. They educate themselves, track spending, and make informed decisions.
Example: Maria, 57, made a commitment to learning about personal finance after her husband passed away. She now sets monthly financial goals, tracks her spending, and feels more secure about her future.
It’s Never Too Late to Shift Your Money Mindset
The good news? No matter your age or financial situation, you can change how you think about money. Start small—educate yourself, set financial goals, and invest in things that bring value to your life.
Whether it’s launching a passion project, learning about investments, or simply giving yourself permission to enjoy your wealth, shifting your money mindset can lead to greater financial security and personal fulfillment.
You deserve a financially abundant and joyful life. The first step is believing that it’s possible.
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