Are you dreaming of a happily blended family and that dream feels impossible?

Do you feel frustrated with trying to balance your needs and those of your combined family?

Are you fed up with all the stress? All the confusion? All the drama?

Do you just want someone to tell you what steps to take and how to make it all work?

I’ve created the Happy Blended Families Course for people just like you, because I’ve been there – twice!!!

The first time I just bumbled my way through, and I was lucky that I didn’t mess up too bad.
The second time wasn’t quite as easy.  My partner felt left out and ignored.  His ex-wife didn’t like that he had found a new relationship and made access visits very difficult.  We were fighting over money, over children and discipline, and the family dynamics were just not working.

And then I found a course specifically for stepfamilies.  We had been living together for 6 months and attending this course together was the best thing we did for our relationship.   It enabled us to go on and have a wonderful 26 years together and my children see him as one of the most important people in their lives.

I wish someone had told me all the steps the first time through.

Which is why I’ve put everything I know and all my experience into this course for you.

What’s Included?

The Happy Blended Families Course is a live 6 week program, commencing on 17th February 2020.

Each week you’ll get 3 short videos, guiding you through the content.

Then a weekly live Q&A where you can get all of your questions answered, and talk about your specific family scenario.

Module 1: Stepfamily Complexity

To understand the complexity of your specific family, and how this impacts behaviours and experiences in your blended family.

This is this module where we create new expectations for how your family will work.

Module 2: The Couple is the Reason for the Stepfamily

Your relationship is the reason you are blending these families.

In this module we work on your relationship, building good communication skills, supporting your couple bond, and building a team.

Module 3: Acknowledging the Impact of the Past

Acknowledging the history that each person brings into a blended family, as it impacts the present (whether we want it to or not).

In this module we’ll acknowledge how this affect our current relationships and what to do about it.

Module 4: The Polarised Parenting Feedback Loop

In this module, you’ll learn what this loop is, and how it’s currently impacting your blended family. Then you’ll learn how to stop the loop before it starts and de-escalate the situation. This is one of the biggest issues in a Stepfamily and you’ll learn the steps and techniques to handle it. Think ferocious Mumma and Pappa Bear.

Module 5: Effective Co-Parenting

This module will help you learn how to become aware of the changes and feelings of the children involved in the Stepfamily experience.

Effective co-parenting might sound hard, but it’s one of the best things you can do you the children and their behaviour.

Module 6: New Possibilities

In this module you’ll learn all about the positives and new possibilities of your stepfamily life.  It’s time to think about new traditions, and how your blended family will thrive together.

About Kay Bayly

I’m Kay Bayly, and I know exactly what it’s like being part of a stepfamily.

My “his, hers, and ours” family includes being married twice, experienced 2 ex-wives, have 8 biological children, 7 stepchildren (4 boys from 1st family and 3 girls from the second family), 12 grandchildren, and 5 step-grandchildren.

Needless to say, the journey has not been easy, but I have walked the path and am now thriving as a stepparent and step-grandparent. Now as a Certified Stepparenting coach I share all that I’ve learnt along the way so that you can avoid the pitfalls of chaos that I endured, and be lifted to a place of calm with skills to navigate the hurdles with ease and grace.

How It Works

You’ll receive a username and password for our online platform. 

Each Saturday for the six weeks you will receive access to all that week’s material to work through at your pace to access at any time that suits you.

You’ll also get access to a private support group where we’ll do our live Q&A calls, and where you can interact with other participants, get help with any questions about the course or that weeks material and how to apply it.  This dedicated Facebook group will be open for the 12 weeks that the course is available for and I will be in the group regularly to support and answer questions.

This eCourse is a 6 weeks live course and then you will have access to the material for a further 6 weeks.  All access to the course material and the dedicated Facebook group will close on May 2nd.

After this time, you will have the option to move to a membership group that is open to anyone who has done either my online course, or my in person courses.  The course material will be available to all those who are part of the membership for as long as their membership.  As I add and improve the course, these will also be added to the membership.  The membership will be a valuable resource to continue your learning and to gain support as you implement the strategies that you have been learning.  It will have a dedicated Facebook group and I will be doing Facebook lives and Q&A sessions regularly.

You’ll need an internet connection, and about 2 hours a week.

What You Get

So that’s the physical stuff… but what you really get is peace of mind.

A toolbox of tools, techniques and steps to help you de-escalate your arguments, and build a successful blended family.

Is This Right For Me?

This is right for you if:

You want a happy blended family
Your care about your kids and step kids
You are willing to accept people for their differences
You understand that there is a lot of self-work and reflection involved, this is about you, as much as it’s about anyone else

This isn’t right for you if:

If you want to keep everything and everyone separate
If you think everything is your partners or your ex partners fault and want to play the blame game
If you think this course is a magic wand. This content is valuable, but you have to be willing to do the work

“I have found Kay’s sessions to be invaluable and I have seen quick results and changes in me.
Thank you Kay, you are a life changer!”

G. Beames

“So refreshing to work with a practitioner who has a practical way of ‘taking the weeds out of the garden of our lives’.  Kay is a warm, generous, and empathetic soul. She has a gift that supports you to release your blocks in no time at all.”

B. Roberts

How to Register

Join today for just $947 (future rounds will be $1,497).

This price includes all the video’s, and PDFs which are yours to keep.

There will be 6 live sessions, 1 each week where I will be available to help you with questions about the content and how to implement in your life.

You will also have access to the course for a further 6 weeks allowing you time to catch up on what you missed and ask further questions through the dedicated Facebook group. 

Course starts on 17 February 2020.


How long do I get access for?
Total access is for 12 weeks.
What are the rules of the Facebook Group?
I will not tolerate any abuse, bullying, discrimination.  Any members engaging in this behaviour will be banned from the course and no refund will be granted.
Are refunds available?
Due to the digital nature, no refunds are available after purchase (unless required by Australian Law)
Will this work for my family?
No matter what stage or type of blended family you’re part of, the skills and techniques you will learn will help you feel more confident with what you are experiencing and what you need to do.
Can my partner join in?
Yes, the price allows you and your partner to use the content and attend the Q&As. You might find that you start this by yourself, but that your partner comes on board later. Ideally you do the course together, but I know that is not always possible. Even if you do it by yourself, the content will make a big difference to your life.

“This morning it dawned on me that I haven’t woken in fear, dreading the day ahead, as I have done for many years. I have a sense of excitement about the day to come and this is a wonderful feeling I have thanks to Kay. I can now look forward to the future knowing I have everything I need. So much better than old-fashioned therapy!”

Denise. L

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